Ja 317 Matarodanajātaka
The Story about Weeping for the Dead (4s)
In the present one man grieves on the death of his brother and becomes distraught. The Buddha advises him this is the way of nature, and tells a story of a wise man of old who taught the truth to people on the death of a loved one, and quietened their distress.
The Bodhisatta = the wise man who delivered the people from grief (nissokabhāvakarapaṇḍita).
Keywords: Grief, Wisdom, Impermanence.
“Weep for the living.”
On the death of his brother, it is said, he was so overwhelmed with grief that he neither ate nor washed nor anointed himself, but in deep affliction he used to go to the cemetery at daybreak to weep. The Teacher, early in the morning casting his eye upon the world and observing in that man a capacity for attaining to the fruition of the First Path, thought: “There is no one but myself that can, by telling him what happened long ago, assuage his grief and bring him to the fruition of the First Path. I must be his refuge.” So next day on returning in the afternoon from his alms round, he took a junior monk and went to his house. On hearing of the Teacher’s arrival, the landowner ordered a seat to be prepared and bade him enter, and saluting him he sat on one side. In answer to the Teacher, who asked him why he was grieving, he said he had been sorrowing ever since his brother’s death. Said the Teacher, “All compound existences are impermanent, and what is to be broken will be broken. One ought not to make a trouble of this. Wise men of old, from knowing this, did not grieve, when their brother died.” And at his request the Teacher related this legend of the past.
In the past when Brahmadatta was reigning in Benares, the Bodhisatta was reborn in the family of a rich merchant, worth eighty crores. When he was come of age, his parents died. And on their death a brother of the Bodhisatta managed the family estate.
1. “Weep for the living rather than the dead!
All creatures that a mortal form do take,
2. Four-footed beast and bird and hooded snake,
Yea men and angels all the same path tread.
3. Powerless to cope with fate, rejoiced to die,
’Midst sad vicissitude of bliss and pain,
Why shedding idle tears should man complain,
And plunged in sorrow for a brother sigh?
4. Men versed in fraud and in excess grown old,
The untutored fool, e’en valiant men of might,
If worldly-wise and ignorant of right,
Wisdom itself as foolishness may hold.”
Thus did the Bodhisatta teach these men the Dhamma, and delivered them all from their sorrow.
The Teacher, after he had ended his Dhamma exposition, revealed the Truths and identified the Jātaka. At the conclusion of the Truths the landowner attained to fruition of the First Path. “At that time the wise man who by his Dhamma exposition delivered people from their sorrow was I myself.”
last updated: November 2021